As I pack my bags and prepare for my daughter's wedding this coming weekend, I am reminded that our family is on the threshold of a transformational event in the life of our family - a wedding, a marriage, a joining of two families, creating a new branch on the family tree. It's exciting and almost breathtaking to think about when I come up from the rabbit holes of family history that I've been down. Generations from now, my descendants will wonder - what was the wedding of our great-grandparents like? Who was at the wedding? Who gave a toast? How many of the grandparents of the bride and groom were in attendance? How did the families understand the joining, the merging of the families? A lot of the symbolism is to synergize the merging of two families, and probably there will be lore passed down by word of mouth. It causes me to think about how we will be remembered in the future, and hope that the means we have of recording the event (jpgs, video MP3s, social media posts, etc.) will be preserved for future generations. Deceased family members will be honored, I do know that. I appreciate that my daughter and her fiancé want to honor and remember those loved ones who are not present, who have already passed on. There will be photos of those weddings past in a table display. This is a wonderful linkage of the past, the present, and the future.
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